After getting over the previous question, Yuan Jia continued to read the next letter.

"Hello, Teacher Yuan, our family lives in a small city. My brother is 28 years old. He was frustrated at work three years ago. I heard he was bullied by his colleagues. He later resigned and is still unemployed today."

"Currently, I suspect that he is suffering from depression. He doesn't eat all day long, refuses to communicate, and is suspicious. He is particularly irritable and loses his temper every day. Later, he went back to his hometown to live in a humble place. He didn't see anyone, and we didn't call our phone number.

The communication was almost interrupted."

"Now his condition is getting worse and worse. He had a big fight with his father the day before yesterday and almost got into a fight. We asked him to see a psychiatrist but he didn't do it. Now the whole family is very distressed and don't know how to guide him.

."

[The question is, your brother has a big problem]

[You should see a doctor for this kind of thing]

[It looks quite scary]

Yuan Jia frowned and said: "I have read your letter. According to your description, your brother's situation may be more complicated than depression. In view of his extreme mood swings and being easily agitated and angry, I

It is suspected that he may suffer from bipolar disorder, with episodes of depression and mania."

"In other words, his condition is more serious than a general mental disorder, and simple verbal counseling cannot help him."

"I regret this, and I also suggest that you be mentally prepared. His current situation cannot be solved by family communication. He is now living in his hometown to avoid the world, and is afraid of facing pressure. He will not listen to any communication at all.

"

"I suggest you give him more patience. He can't face his family now. He must be in extreme pain. The more concerned his family is, the more rebellious he will be."

"While stabilizing his mood, you should also contact a local psychiatrist as soon as possible. He may need medication. You can ask local agencies for assistance to help persuade your brother to seek medical treatment."

Yuan Jia could only say so much. After all, he could not contact the patient, and the patient suffered from a very difficult bipolar disorder.

The most troublesome thing about this disease is the manic episode. The patient is not willing to cooperate with the psychiatrist at all, and will even hit someone when pushed.

When chatting with Zhao Shiyin and others last time, Yuan Jia also mentioned that psychological counseling is not a panacea, especially when the patient is unwilling to cooperate, the family members are often the first to collapse.

Faced with this kind of patient, Yuan Jia has no choice. If the other party is willing to cooperate with the treatment, he can help him slowly recover through hypnosis, otherwise he may be beaten for forced treatment.

It is said that Buddha saves those who are destined, and the same goes for doctors.

In this case, the patient can only be forced to be sent to the hospital to receive drug treatment. After a period of time, when the patient's mood has stabilized, psychological treatment can be provided.

Yuanjia continued to read the next letter.

"Hello, Teacher Yuan, I am a girl, and I grew up in a healthy environment. However, I feel that I am very indifferent, especially I have a very indifferent attitude toward feelings. Even my relatives who are very good to me are very indifferent to feelings."

"I have met many people and they all said that I never care about others and that I don't seem to care about anything. I had a boyfriend before and he said that I was too cold. After we broke up, I had no intention of staying. In fact, I

I really liked him, but I didn’t say it out loud in the end, and my relatives also said I was inhumane.”

"Maybe I am really a cold-blooded and selfish person. I want to change, but I don't know where to start. Alas."

After reading the letter, many people in the live broadcast room said that they seemed to have the same symptoms.

[It’s just a bit more Buddhist]

【Me too】

[I never take the initiative to contact my friends. Basically, others contact me]

【I don’t want to trouble others, and I don’t want others to trouble me】

[I’m so tired of dealing with favors]

Yuan Jia looked at the letter and the comments from the audience in the live broadcast room, and he began to speak.

"After reading your letter, I would like to ask you a question, or ask a question to the classmates in the live broadcast room who have the same distress."

"Why do you care so much about being a cold person? Or what does it mean to you?"

[My mother said you need to be passionate to be a person]

【Understand the worldly ways】

[If you are too cold, you will not be liked]

Everyone gave their own answers, and there were all kinds of answers. In summary, they were ‘other people’s opinions’

Yuan Jia said: "Then have you noticed that when you try to get close to others, try to be enthusiastic, and try to be diplomatic, do you feel very uncomfortable, as if you are wearing a mask, and you feel very tired."

【Yes】x99

"People have thousands of sides, and learning to accept yourself is the most important thing. The problem in the question is that 'I want to change because of other people's opinions' but 'I am actually very comfortable in this state', which creates psychological contradictions and

Tangled.”

"No one is naturally cold-blooded. It can only be said that the way we express ourselves is different from the way most people think we care and care. Although we don't say it out loud, we actually care deeply in our hearts and are not cold-blooded."

"You may be indifferent because of other people's gifts, or you may be moved to tears by the story of the loyal dog Hachiko. This is not indifference, but that the things that move you are different from others."

"There are always people who stay with you and become friends or lovers because you are you."

"So just be yourself happily. This is not selfishness or indifference. It's just that everyone's attitude towards doing things is different."

[Teacher Yuan speaks so comfortably]

[Teacher Yuan really understands me]

[I feel sad all afternoon when I see an abandoned kitten in a garbage dump, but I don’t care much about others]

[The loyal dog Hachiko really made me cry to death]

…

Two hours later, the live broadcast ended, and Yuan Jia breathed a sigh of relief.

【Sing!】x999

Yuan Jia: "..."

I agreed, so let’s sing. Yuanjia pulled the microphone closer and said: “Our administrator just requested a song, so now it’s the turn to list some songs... Ah, it’s still Gardenia classmate, then Gardenia

Classmate, what song do you want to listen to?"

[Can you please just ask Gardenia directly?]

【So fair!】

【Hate that I am not a rich woman】

Of course Gardenia was very happy, so she held her mobile phone and posted the song title in the live broadcast room.

Gardenia: "I want to hear the secret that cannot be told~"

Yuan Jia can also sing this song, as well as Jay Chou's songs. He often hummed it in his seat in high school.

"The most beautiful thing is not the rainy day, but the eaves that sheltered you from the rain..."

Yuan Jia likes this line the most, and Gardenia also likes it the most. Just reading the lyrics, a beautiful picture emerges.

After singing the song, the audience was still a little unfinished.

Although her singing skills are not as good as those of professional singers, Yuan Jia is almost the one who sings best in terms of appearance...bah psychology.

The key is that his breath is very stable, and he is very emotionally involved, and his expressions are on point without being overdone. When he sings, he seems to be telling a story, making people unconsciously immersed in the atmosphere of the story.

"See you tomorrow. Good night everyone. Remember to drink more hot water and cover yourself with a quilt."

…

After the live broadcast ended, Yuanjia checked the system's points acquisition status.

The points increase is similar to yesterday's, which is about 2,500 points. If you do some rough math, it seems that the points that the song can increase are less than 500 points.

After all, the healing effect that songs can have is too limited, and it also depends on the different songs themselves. Just any song cannot have a healing effect.

Including the 500 points added by Wang Yalin during the day, Yuan Jia's current total points are 3,000 points.

After taking a bath, Yuan Jia leaned on the bedside and took out his mobile phone to chat with Gardenia.

Gardenia also likes to chat with him. If one day, she can wear a small skirt and fall into his arms like other girls, then Gardenia will be like a little bear, huddled in the warmth.

Out.

Thinking of a topic in tonight's live broadcast, Xu Nanzhi cautiously probed: "Yuanjia, would you dislike a girl because her family is very rich? In fact, she has no money herself..."

Yuanjia: "I feel like you are talking about yourself."

Gardenia: "I'm not...just asking..."

Yuan Jia: "Of course not."

So Gardenia felt relieved. She saw so many people in the live broadcast room saying that she was a good match, but she was so frightened that they all jumped out to speak.

It's early ten o'clock now, and it's not time to go to bed yet. The two of them are lying on the bed sideways, looking at their phones with smiles on their faces.

In fact, we don’t chat all the time, but as long as the chat window is open, it feels like we are with the other person.

Yuan Jia: "I sang two songs for you, do you want to sing one for me too?"

Gardenia: "I can't sing..."

Gardenia actually felt that what Yuan Jia said was reasonable, and she should come back to sing, so she reluctantly said: "Then can I just sing a small line..."
To be continued...