Chapter 68 Teach you how to be romantic(1/2)
If you want to ask who Yuan Jia envies the most, it is undoubtedly the family’s little fat cat Ika.
"I'm here! Ika, where are you?"
As soon as Yuan Hui got home, she threw away her schoolbag, then searched the house for cats, and finally picked up a little fat cat on the mop on the balcony that was about to be melted by the sun.
"Meow……"
Ika stretched for a long time, then yawned lazily, making an expression like "I miss you after not seeing each other for a long time", and enthusiastically touched Gong Yuanhui's small head with his big head.
Yuan Jia also came to rub its big head, and it slapped his stinky hand away with its paw, then made a retching expression.
This guy just took off his socks and didn't wash his hands. He stinks to death!
Yang Hemei is cooking in the kitchen. What she is making tonight is stuffed bitter melon, and she needs to peel a lot of garlic.
Yuan Hui volunteered to take over the job of peeling garlic, and Yuan Jia didn't take any time off either. Her mother grabbed her and used a small spoon to dig into the bitter melon tube.
Stuffed bitter gourd is a famous Hakka dish. It is very simple to make. Stuff the prepared meat filling into the bitter gourd, fry both sides until it takes shape, then put it in a casserole and simmer until it is cooked through.
Food can also 'heal' people's hearts, and its effect has a wider audience than music and the like. After all, most people can't resist the delicious food on the tip of their tongues.
Yuan Jia often felt that to a certain extent, the "chicken soup" he mentioned was not one ten thousandth as effective as the chicken soup made by his mother.
Like a wanderer from afar struggling in a foreign land, the greatest warmth is a mouthful of hot food at home.
"Mommy, can you just put in the garlic and not the bitter melon?" Yuan Hui asked while peeling the garlic.
Ika sat at the door of the kitchen and watched the two brothers and sisters working curiously. He liked to watch by the side most when others were working.
"Eating more bitter melon is good for your health, and you will like to eat it in the future." Yang Hemei chopped the meat, and the chopping board made a clicking sound.
"Brother, do you like to eat?"
"I like it."
Yuan Hui had a grimace on her face. She didn't like eating bitter melon, and she definitely wouldn't like eating it in the future either!
Humph, they say children are picky eaters, that’s because adults can buy the food they like.
During dinner, Yuan Hui diligently helped her brother pick up the vegetables, and then looked at him expectantly.
Yuan Jia was speechless, so he took out the meat filling and put it into her bowl, and then ate the bitter melon peel himself. In fact, he didn't like bitter melon before, but then he suddenly felt that bitter melon was delicious.
After the meal, Yuan Yuan installed a filter in the goldfish tank. The little goldfish could eat and poop, but the water soon became turbid. He couldn't change the water every day, so he had to buy a filter.
"Jia, there is a written test on Friday. Have you reviewed it?"
"Well, I reviewed it."
Yuan Yuan has already roughly told Yuan Jia the scope of the written test. In addition to the mental health and values tests, the most important thing is the assessment of professional abilities. It involves a wide range of content, but it is mainly based on psychology textbooks.
question.
Including "General Psychology", "Experimental Psychology", "Development Psychology", "Clinical Psychology", "Abnormal Psychology", "Social Psychology" and so on, nearly ten professional contents.
Yuan Jia was quite confident. After all, it was almost the same as when he was taking the postgraduate entrance examination. He had already chewed up these books.
Coupled with the case experience accumulated in these years of clinical practice, he really has nothing to prepare for. If he has strength, he has a backdoor. If he cannot choose this external lecturer, it only means that someone has a stronger backdoor than him.
, more krypton gold.
Yuan Hui lay down in front of the fish tank and looked at the little goldfish. The filter started, and soon the turbid water began to become cleaner. Then she let out a surprised gasp.
"You're still reading. Go do your homework." Yang Hemei reminded her daughter when she saw that she was trying to get rid of her homework without knowing it.
"oh……"
Yuan Hui took out her homework book and ran to Yuan Jia: "Brother, please teach me how to do my homework!"
Yuan Jia pointed to his leisurely dad over there and said, "Ask dad to teach you. My brother wants to review for the exam."
The little ball rolled to Yuan Yuan.
Yuan Yuan was about to speak but hesitated, he was reluctant to speak, but he had no choice but to bear the burden of being a father...
…
Yuanjia returned to the room and closed the door. Reviewing was impossible. He chatted with Gardenia for a while, and at eight o'clock he started the live broadcast on time.
After almost a week of live streaming, the audience became stable. Ten minutes after the broadcast started, the number of people online reached about a thousand.
Now that we have signed a live broadcast contract with DouNiao, the popularity value displayed on the platform has been virtualized dozens of times. When wild tourists take a look, wow, there are tens of thousands of people watching!
If there are nearly 10,000 people online at the peak of normal times, it has hundreds of thousands of popularity.
And today DouNiao also gave Yuanjia a good recommendation spot on the homepage. At nine o'clock, the number of people online reached more than 15,000.
The category was moved to the appearance area by the platform, and almost all of the audience were women. Anyway, Yuan Jia thought their ID names looked like women.
Reluctantly, Yuan Jia is now considered a small internet celebrity. Relying on daily live broadcast rewards, he can earn at least 20,000 to 30,000 yuan a month, not counting Gardenia's rewards.
Incredible.
Yuan Jia is not only good-looking, has a gentle voice, and sings well, but he is also very professional in answering the audience's psychological problems. Gradually, many people came to ask for advice and learning.
"Hello Teacher Yuan, I am a loyal fan of yours. I have been following your official account since half a year ago, and I watch your live broadcasts on time every day these days. I am a student majoring in psychology. Through my understanding of Teacher Yuan
, I found Teacher Yuan to be a particularly romantic person!”
While Yuan Jia was reading the letter, he also felt a little embarrassed. As an innocent young man, he was quite shy in front of such a large audience.
[Gardenia’s Trumpet: Send Aircraft Carrier x1]
Yuan Jia regained his composure and thanked ‘Gardenia’s Trumpet’ for sending the aircraft carrier, while the audience’s barrages were also flowing.
[Why does Mr. Gardenia use a trumpet?]
【This trumpet is too obvious!】
[Haha, is this fan letter a confession of love?]
【No chance!】
Yuan Jia continued to read the letter. It was naturally not a confession letter. Of course, he had also received it, but he had filtered it out.
"Teacher Yuan, you are such a romantic person. I am very curious, so I have a question for you. Is there any relationship between romance and personality traits? Is it something you are born with or is it acquired?"
This is a very interesting question. Romantic people are very popular wherever they go. For girls, the attraction of a romantic boy is unparalleled.
【I also want to be a romantic person】
[I am a straight man of steel]
[What a coincidence, I am a gangster]
[I get angry when I say this, my boyfriend is not romantic at all]
It can be seen from the comments that everyone wants to be a romantic person, but they can't find the way.
Yuan Jia smiled and said: "I have read the letter. Let's first give a definition of romance. It is a character trait that is full of poetry and fantasy, with strong sensitivity and good imagination. It does not only refer to love in the narrow sense.
Kind of romantic."
"This will lead to a concept called personality traits, which are durable, stable, and consistent psychological structural characteristics."
"Temperament is usually divided into four types. You can refer to what type of person you are. Of course, most people have mixed temperaments."
“The first type is sanguine, lively, active, sensitive, quick to respond, and likes to interact with others; the second type is phlegmatic, calm, regular, steady, serious, and serious; the third type is choleric, enthusiastic
, straightforward, energetic, and quick-tempered; the fourth type is depressive, likes to be alone, observant, sensitive, gentle, slow, and sentimental."
"Based on these four temperaments, the phlegmatic temperament is the least romantic, which is what we often call a steely man or a steely woman; while people with a sanguine temperament are more likely to make 'romantic'
Take action."
"Of course, romance can also be cultivated. Romantic people tend to be more receptive and have certain advantages in empathy."
"After sensing the other person's emotions and feelings, he can 'comfort' the other person through core positive behaviors. In the eyes of others, this approach will appear very 'romantic', so you must cultivate your own romantic ability.
, then you must first have core positive thinking.”
After Yuan Jia finished speaking, he looked at the barrage and found that some people understood it and some people didn't.
[Teacher Yuan, don’t pretend, just say it simply]
Yuan Jia said helplessly: "To put it simply, if you are sunny, confident in life, and have a high pursuit of beautiful things, then you can also become a romantic person."
【Understood】x999
[I said I would take my girlfriend to the city museum, and she said I was boring. I said I would take her to the Louvre, and she said I was so romantic]
【Laughing and crying】
[Can you compare with Teacher Yuan? Teacher Yuan takes me to pick up garbage. I also find it romantic! 】
Yuan Jia was also amused by this barrage. In fact, romance is really hard to teach. Most of the time, it’s not about what is done, but who is doing it.
"Even if a romantic person is picking up trash, in his eyes he still sees the vast stars above his head, the free wind, and the chirping of birds and frogs around him."
"For those who are not romantic, even if they are in the Louvre, they will only see the crowds and noise."
【Extreme Pair】x999
Yuan Jia's live broadcast room is becoming more and more popular, and many wild tourists are attracted by his interesting psychological interpretation style and stay to follow him.
To be continued...