When I came to the door of the Education Bureau office, I didn't see San Yiniang. The staff at the Education Bureau office politely asked me where I was looking. I said I was looking for San Yiniang Hai Wanyu. They told me that San Yiniang's office was on the second floor.

I came to the second floor and found San Yiniang's office. She didn't recognize me for a while. I only heard me call San Yiniang twice, and then she asked: "Who are you?"

I quickly said: "I am Mu Yi, a child of Hai Wanqiu's family."

The third aunt came to her senses and quickly used her unique loud voice: "Mu Yiha, you have grown so tall. I almost didn't recognize you. You stayed at my house for one night during your graduation exam three years ago."

Me: "Yes, Third Auntie has a really good memory."

Third Yiniang: "That's right. Time is so easy. You've grown so big." While chatting with me, she made a cup of tea and handed it to me.

Seeing that I was still standing, she said again: "Sit down."

I quickly sat down on the wicker chair in her office.

Third Yiniang: "Why did you come to see me today?"

I quickly returned and said, "I'm here to ask about the civil service examination from my third wife."

Third Aunt: "Oh. I didn't know that your kid was going to take the exam. It was more than half a month ago. My eldest sister was still asking if any children from any families were going to take the exam. Everyone was still saying that there were no exams this year and they would graduate next year.

.I didn’t even think about you.”

My heart skipped a beat. Yes, everyone thinks of the people they are closer to. It can also be seen from this incident that in fact we are no longer close to them. But what can be done about this? Between people

It's normal.

Me: "Third aunt. I went to the Personnel Bureau to inquire about the news in the morning, and I found out that ten civil servants have been recruited."

Third Yiniang: "Yes. Now we need to carry out reforms. Only civil servants are popular."

Me: "If the county wants to recruit students, you should know the news, right?"

Third Aunt: "I didn't ask because I didn't care about this matter. Normally, if you want to take the exam, your uncle and uncle should know about it."

Yes, my eldest uncle is the deputy county magistrate, and my eldest uncle is the director of the government office. They need to know and master many things in the county. It’s just that they didn’t think of me, a distant nephew. I think it’s my own problem. If

I visited them earlier, so if there was any news, it would only be a matter of one sentence. After conveying the news to me, I would be ready to take the exam.

Think about it, it still has a lot to do with family education. My father's consistent thought is: "Don't burn the lamp when your hands are cold, and don't look for relatives when you have something to do." He is the kind of person who has a very low self-esteem and is afraid that others will look down on him. So when he met

He would never ask relatives for help with anything. He encouraged himself or comforted himself, saying that he was "working hard and relying on his own efforts". It was a bit like "don't ask for help in everything". So, even if he went to Chengdu to work, there are

He did not seek help from some successful relatives, but sought life elsewhere.

This kind of thinking has also influenced us subtly. We are eager to communicate with others, but we are also afraid of communicating with others. When we encounter things, we just carry it alone and think alone. We often fall into the "self-isolation trap" and cannot

Communicate and cooperate with people correctly. This is also the source of many difficulties I will encounter in the future.

However, there is no way. Three feet of ice is not frozen in a day. These problems and defects cannot be corrected in a while. You can only try your best to learn and improve yourself in the future life.

Because of his low self-esteem, my father especially likes to "brag" and "boost his weak self-esteem". Maybe this can satisfy his fragile "self-esteem". But these behaviors of his can only add laughter to others and are not harmful to others.

What real changes can it bring to life? Sometimes it can also bring us a lot of passivity and embarrassment invisibly.

Third aunt: "I heard from the sister-in-law in Chengdu, second sister, it was your second aunt who introduced your girlfriend to your boy, and you still look down on her? It's because you are trying to be friends with an eldest sister in Fujian."

The third aunt suddenly asked me this, which caught me off guard and made me very embarrassed. I was very confused, this question was very private, how could they know?

Me: "Third aunt, you have misunderstood. It's not that I look down on her. It's just that I don't like doing business and I feel like I'm not that material. The one in Fujian is not my girlfriend, but my sister. She has gone back to Fujian to get married.

.”

Third Yiniang: "Oh, don't get excited. I'm just asking casually. Mainly because they came to Haichang during the Mid-Autumn Festival to watch the moon play. We were eating by the Qiong Pond, and we accidentally talked about this matter."

Me: "Thank you, Third Aunt, for your concern. Then please help my nephew to pay attention to it. If there is any news about the exam, please find someone to bring me a message."

Third Aunt: "I'm in the Education Bureau and I'm not very well-informed. I also like to play mahjong. You go find your aunt. She works in the county committee office. Your eldest uncle is also the deputy county magistrate. They need to be better informed.

Son."

Although I felt that the third aunt didn't want to cause trouble, she pushed me to the eldest aunt. But after thinking about it, I felt that what she said still made sense. I made up my mind to go and have a try even if it was "a mountain of swords and a sea of ​​fire".

However, I still don’t know whether the door of my aunt’s natal house faces east or west. How can I find her? Is it rare that I have to go directly to the county party committee office to find her? If I go, she is not in the office. I can’t wait for anyone all afternoon.

What should I do? It’s better to be prepared. You need to find out where her house is.

I asked my third aunt, and she told me readily. She also reminded me that my aunt lived in a government compound, so be sure not to knock on the wrong door. She placed a handful of Chen Ai above the eyebrow of the door.

I asked where the county party committee office was. San Yi Niang told me that the county party committee is near the government. Walk fifty meters ahead of the cinema and you will see a big iron gate that is the county party committee. After entering, there are several small buildings inside, and the building on the left in front is the Discipline Inspection Commission.
Chapter completed!