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Chapter 338: A Night with Thousands of Thoughts

Mu Yi finished washing, ironed his feet, took off his clothes, and got into bed with a swoosh. It was cold! Mu Yi was so cold that he quickly curled up into a ball. Maybe it was because of the cold, or maybe it was because of the cold.

He was so full that although Mu Yi curled up in bed, he couldn't sleep.

This night in Varado was exceptionally quiet. There was neither the noise of the TV nor the roar of cars. There was not even the sound of people talking. When Mu heard his own breathing, it was actually quite strong. He

I want to laugh a little.

Normally, he hadn't noticed this. Now that it was quiet, he could hear it clearly. It turned out that the sound of his breathing was still so loud. He wondered if he was snoring when he was asleep. He thought,

It would be great if I had a tape recorder now. Then I could record my sleeping sounds. When I wake up and listen to it again, I will know whether I am snoring or not.

I still have some regrets during this Spring Festival. Mu Yi said to himself silently.

One is that Yuwa'er didn't come back during the Spring Festival. This is understandable. He is such a strong person. When he went out, he thought that he must get ahead and "get ahead" before he came back. When he went out, he had not yet established his footing. There was great competition in society.

, although it is easy to find a job, it is not easy to find a "good job" that really suits you. In addition, the round-trip fare is also a big expense. This is not only to stabilize the job, but also to save the fare. So Yu

Wa'er chose not to come back for the Spring Festival. In this way, Mu Yi never got to meet Yu Wa'er.

Both of them are that the second baby is so decadent and even gives up on himself. Apart from accompanying him to get drunk, I also let myself get drunk, and there is no better way to comfort him. I don’t know what the future of this second baby will be. But

From his pessimistic and desperate words, Mu Yi vaguely felt that the possibility of him getting into college was too low. What would he do if he couldn't get into college? Should he go out to work to make a living, or go somewhere to study?

A craft that will help you support yourself in the future.

The three of them did not see Wen Qingfeng during the Spring Festival. Everyone spends the New Year on their own. I wonder if his family forced him to go on a "blind date"? I don't know how his "New Year's wish" was fulfilled. If he

After successfully becoming the deputy dean, wouldn't he have to go to work in Guoshen Township? Then wouldn't their "two-person dining group" be disbanded? It seems that Mu Yi has to "prepare for rainy days" and study

I have some skills in living alone. The most basic thing is to prepare a good meal for one person, which not only saves expenses, but also ensures nutrition. Otherwise, you have to grow tall and climb uphill.

Climbing mountains and wading through rivers to go to work in the countryside involves some mental work, but there is also a lot of physical work. You need to have the eyesight to observe, the brainpower to think, and most importantly, the footwork to practice.

Only by going to fellow villagers' homes or groups can we truly get close to them, get to know them, understand them, and help them, thereby gaining their trust, understanding, and support.

Thinking of the support from fellow villagers, Mu Yi suddenly thought of another thing. The position of deputy mayor in this township seems to have been vacant for a long time. Why is it still "undecided"? Which comrade will become the deputy mayor?

?Is it Xu Yingxiong, or Zhang Gang? Or is it the smart Pan Jianguo?

Forget it, it doesn’t matter whether it’s Zhang San or Li Si. Just do your job well.

But after the past six months of work, in fact, the workload here is not very large. There is a lot of free time. How to use this time? Is it used for playing cards and drinking? No, no, no, playing cards and drinking is very important.

What I can do is not what I like. Is that used in talking about falling in love? No, no, no, there are no conditions for falling in love. There is neither a suitable partner nor preparation for love. Tell me the truth, Mu Yi

Some are afraid of falling in love. If you like someone but others don't like you, that would be so embarrassing! If someone else likes you but you don't like others, that would be so hurtful! Unless you meet someone who likes you and she also likes you.

People. However, if this is the case, it is just like it but there is no result. What a pity? But if there is a result, it is nothing more than "getting married and having children".

The thought of "getting married and having children" made Mu Yi's head buzz incessantly. According to the customs of Xigui County, there is a whole set of "complicated rules" for getting married.

Generally, if a man falls in love with a woman, he first hires a reliable "Hongyi", that is, a matchmaker. Then he takes the man's "gifts" and goes to the woman's house to "test" her tone to see if the woman's family has that intention.

If not, then come back and tell the man that "the fate is not enough". Generally, if the woman accepts the "gift" happily, it is a sign of consent. If she does not accept it, it means she does not agree. Of course, there are also men who are too embarrassed to tell Hongyi in advance, no matter what

"Whether you succeed or not, you must keep the gift." This is mainly because you are afraid that others will see it on the road and the "gift" will be returned and you will lose face.

After Hongyi brings back the "good news" that the girl's family has agreed, the boy's family will start preparing for the "Send-off Festival". The "Send-off Festival" means that the girl's family has agreed to date, but has not yet held an "engagement" ceremony.

This period should be regarded as the "trial relationship period". During this period, if there are traditional festivals such as "Dragon Boat Festival" and "Mid-Autumn Festival", the man's family will prepare appropriate "ceremonies" for the man to celebrate on the festival day.

Follow "Hongyi" to visit the woman's house in person and deliver the "boxing gift" to the woman's home. The woman then leaves the man to play with her until dinner before going back. During this process, the woman and her family have the opportunity to observe and talk at close range.

Through other methods, we can further understand the situation of the man and his family. Through observation and understanding, when the woman’s family feels that the man is worthy of entrustment, they will give some hints, such as: “Call your parents at some time, let’s have a meal together and get to know each other.”

"Haha." This actually implies that the groom's family has mentioned "engagement". "Hongyi" will convey this "important information" to the groom's family.

Then the man's family will select an "auspicious day" and then ask "Hongyi" to convey the information to the woman's family. When the "auspicious day" arrives, early in the morning, the relatives and friends of the man's family will join Hongyi to form a "lucky day".

The "engagement group" brings the "engagement ceremony" and the man's "birth date" to the woman's home. The first is to "give gifts", the second is to get (exchange) the woman's "birth date", and the third is to personally pay tribute to the woman's family.

Important relatives go to the groom's house to "visit", that is, an "engagement" ceremony is held, also known as "Na Bazi". The specifications of the "engagement" ceremony banquet are similar to those of the wedding "wedding banquet", both are "nine big bowls", but they are smaller than "Nine Big Bowls".

"Wedding banquet" pays more attention to "delicacy" and "intention".

After the "engagement" ceremony is held, the relationship between the man and the woman is made public among relatives of both parties. The two people officially interact as "fiancee" and "fiancé". Then the adults of both men and women will privately find "Mr."

Go to the "horoscope". If the "horoscope" of both parties "comes together", then congratulations to both parties, the wedding wine is just around the corner. If, unfortunately, the "horoscope" of both parties does not come together, then we must find a way to "resolve" it. If it is really "

If it cannot be resolved," the only option is to "break off the engagement" and call off the marriage.

"The eight characters have come together" or "the eight characters have come together after resolution", the next step is to pass the "observation period" and "test period" of the relationship, and successfully enter the "marriage". Of course, there are "ceremonies" and "ceremonies" before the marriage.

It is also necessary, especially "passing the courtesy".

Thinking of this, Mu Yi's head hurt. But he quickly laughed at himself, saying that he was "not even a character", and he didn't even have a romantic partner. It's better not to think about it, just go to sleep.

.It is better to say "there is a house of gold in the book, and there is a face like jade in the book" than "there is a house of gold in the dream, and there is a face like jade in the dream".
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