Although I am worried and entangled over whether to "go" or "not to go", if the matter of my sister and brother-in-law is not handled well, it is very likely that "big trouble" will happen. With my sister Wen Qingxi's pungent character

, she can do anything. Wen Qingfeng couldn't imagine how bad this matter would become if it developed in a "bad" direction. He had to find a way to make it develop in a "beautiful" direction.

"Dad, Mom. I know that you have cared about our three sisters since you were young. Although you are so strict now and even a little unhuman. But we all know that it is because you care about your sister and worry about her in the future.

Live an unhappy life."

"Yes! Sun Minqiang's family is in that place of Zidong or Zixi. It's so far away. If you get married, we won't know if people beat you, scold you and bully you. What if you

There is something going on. We don’t have any information at all. Even if someone brings the information, by the time we catch up, the water will have passed through Sanqiutian. At that time, you were calling Tiantianying, calling

What should we do if the ground doesn't work? Yaoyao, you are still young and you don't know how hard life is." My mother was saying with tears and runny noses.

"However, now that we have grown up and can protect ourselves, you should not worry too much."

"How can we not worry? You will know when you become adults."

"Oh, how can this be so good? It's going to make people laugh." The father who had been silent all this time spoke up.

Wen Qingxi knew what his father meant. The old man said that he was the youngest daughter. The eldest brother and the second brother had not yet married, but he had a family. He would be laughed at by the villagers and relatives and friends of the Wen family.

"Dad, Mom. I am very open-minded. I am married to Sun Minqiang, and I will live with him in this life. It doesn't matter whether we have a banquet or not." After saying that, he looked at his father and mother.

Hearing Wen Qingxi say that he "doesn't matter whether we have a banquet or not", his father's frown relaxed a little. "Face" is still very important in his heart. Regarding Wen Qingxi's marriage to Sun Minqiang,

He knew very well in his heart: "If a girl is not admitted to college, she will be hated if she is retained." He was also afraid that if he opposed it too much, given the child's stubborn character, some trouble would arise. If the situation could not be settled by then, he would remain.

What regrets are there, they are regrets that cannot be made up for in a lifetime.

But I have worked so hard to raise such a big daughter, and if I just get married and leave quietly like this, I really don’t want to go. What should I do? If I hold a wedding banquet, everyone will definitely be disappointed.

I know that I heard that my two sons, the eldest and the second, have not yet gotten married, and the youngest daughter is in a hurry to get married. How can I still laugh at her for the rest of my life?

The mother is also in a dilemma. She is worried that her daughter will marry far away. If she is not happy in the future, she is afraid that she will regret not stopping her today. What if she regrets it and says, "I am young and ignorant, why don't you, a mother, regret it?"

Discourage them?" What should I do? Once it has reached that point, nothing can help. However, if I tear them apart now, who can guarantee that I will be able to find a more suitable family in the future?

Who can guarantee her happiness? There is no guarantee, and no one can predict what will happen in the future. But just watching her go like this makes me feel really uncomfortable, and I really can't bear it. It can be said that I still can't.

She was not mentally prepared to be separated from her daughter. According to common sense and old rules, Wen Lao should be the head of the house, then Wen Lao Er should be the head of the house, and finally find a good in-law for Wen Yaomei. It's all messed up, it's completely messed up.

.How to do how to do?

"Boss, do you have someone you like?" Father suddenly asked Wen Qingfeng.

"No. I haven't met the right person yet." Wen Qingfeng answered his father's question truthfully.

Sun Minqiang was worthy of being a "travelling man", and he quickly understood the dilemma faced by his father-in-law and mother-in-law.

"Dad, Mom. I can understand your difficulties, and I can also understand that as parents, we all want our children to be happy. I won't say more, and I won't say any fancy words. Please rest assured, you two.

Wen Qingxi followed me and promised that I would not endure hardship. Although our family is in Zidong, my parents are still relatively liberal in their thinking. My sister and I are the only two sisters in my family. My sister has also married and lives in Zidong. Their family

The living conditions are also good. Now they live and use their parents’ houses, savings and so on by themselves. They don’t ask us for a penny. We use the money we earn by ourselves. They also provide assistance.

Some of us. Their second master also said that in the future I can live in Xigui, I can live in Zidong, or I can live in Chengdu. No matter where we live, if we want to buy a house, they will pay for it. In addition,

I work on the railway. Although it is a bit hard work, I am engaged in technology and the salary is still relatively high. Even if Qingxi does not have a job, gets married and has a baby, she will take care of the baby at home and I will provide for her.

There is no problem with them. Although we railway people have to go wherever the project reaches. However, all jobs need people to do it. When I retire, I can still be proud of my children.

He said, 'Your father and I participated in the construction of the railway in Yao'er.' It's quite a sense of accomplishment. If Qingxi doesn't want to take care of the baby at home in the future, my parents will help us take care of it. She wants to have her own

I also support her if she wants to work in her career. In addition, I feel something. I will take the liberty to say, I hope your parents, as well as the eldest brother, will not be angry. Although the second brother is at work and has not come back, but there is no

Relationship. What I want to say is that if the family is in trouble, you don’t have to hold a banquet for me and Qingxi. This way everyone will not be so embarrassed in front of relatives and friends here. But, at my house, we will still choose one

On the auspicious day, we will hold a big banquet to marry Wen Qingxi. At that time, I will trouble your parents, elder brothers, and any relatives you think need to be called, and everyone will make an appointment to go to our house. It is equivalent to yours.

It’s time to ‘send off the bride’.”

After hearing what Sun Minqiang said, my father and mother's views on Sun Minqiang changed a little, and they "reluctantly" accepted him as their son-in-law.

"Silly boy, you don't know the rules of Xigui. The girl's parents will not participate in the procession of sending off the bride."

Sun Minqiang felt happy when his mother-in-law called him "silly boy." He knew that her mother-in-law recognized him.

Wen Qingxi was also shocked. She did not expect that her stubborn mother would accept this son-in-law like this. She suddenly cried with joy.

"Woooooooo..."

"Yao'er, what's wrong with you?" her mother asked her with concern.

Wen Qingxi came to her mother's side, nestled in her arms, and said coquettishly: "Mom, I'm happy, I'm happy. Thank you."

Mother also held Wen Qingxi in her arms and combed Wen Qingxi's hair with her somewhat rough fingers.

"Yao'er. Mom and your dad don't have any bad intentions. We just want you to be happy and hope that you three sisters will live well in the future. Don't work hard all your life like us."

Wen Qingfeng: "Dad, Mom. Now, Min Qiang and my sister have obtained their marriage certificate. We are a family. We should believe in my sister's own vision and trust in Min Qiang's character. As for Qing Hai and I, we are still

Before getting married, my sister got married first. According to the old customs here, it may make parents feel embarrassed and feel shameless. I think we don't need to care about other people's opinions."

"You put it simply. Do I want to put my face in my pocket? In life, you can't just say you don't care about other people's opinions. You are all still young. It's hard to be a human being. Many times you can't help yourself."

The father spoke softly, but every word he spoke touched everyone's heart. But there was no objection to the marriage between Wen Qingxi and Sun Minqiang in his words.

"Min Qiang, I just heard you say that your family still has a banquet. Is the date set?"

"Brother, it's decided, it will be the eighteenth day of the first lunar month."

"Oh. Then, Mom and Dad, do you think you still have time to inform your relatives and friends? We should hold a banquet for my sister and marry her there in a lively way?"

"My dear, you think too simplistically. Generally, the news about these things needs to be disseminated at least one month in advance. Only the daughter-in-law needs to treat guests, and the daughter (married daughter-in-law) does not need to treat guests, so the news should be disseminated

After the news is distributed, relatives and friends will come in advance to "gather gifts" after receiving the news. When the time comes, they can estimate the scale of the wedding banquet, the number of participants, and determine the number of banquet tables. You see, today is the first day of the wedding.

How old is it?"

"It's already fourteen today, and tomorrow is the Lantern Festival."

"Yeah. So, we can't win at all."

"Mom, Dad, brother, don't worry too much. It doesn't matter whether we have a wedding reception or not. We won't do it if we don't have enough time. Anyway, it's just Min Qiang and I."
Chapter completed!