Moreover, strictly speaking, if you want to accept others, you must first accept yourself and accept your disapproval of certain levels. Moreover, I have said more than once that the degree of matching is very important for the consultation relationship. If you blindly force yourself to accept everything without condition and bias, then the degree of matching is bullshit! And you are almost the same as non-humans, so what else can you be a consultant? Because non-humans cannot empathize with humans.

Again, every psychological counselor has its own specific audience and is not omnipotent.

In fact, there is also a vicious move used by psychological counselors to inter-record with peers. That is clarification and explanation. It is mostly used by veteran counselors to deal with novice counselors. What is a vicious method?

I questioned, but you can't explain the whole story to me. As soon as you open your mouth, I will put you in the hat of explanation. You love to explain so much, so when you receive visitors, are you unable to grasp the key points during the entire consultation process?

It sounds very reasonable, right? But you fell into the trap, the other party deliberately ignored the principle of specific analysis of the specific situation and brought you into the ditch. If you don’t explain, people say you agree, and then proudly think that you are keen on observation. You explain, people look like you are anxious and you are anxious. Isn’t it vicious?

But when it's your turn to ask questions, people start to explain. And when you want to put the other person in an explanation, he said it. It's not called explanation, it's clarification. It looks like you're too tender.

When you see this, do you have the urge to give the other party a slap? Don’t! The more angry you are, the more proud you are. When you attack the other party, you will also receive an honor and be punished for your words.

Therefore, when dealing with this kind of scum, you must clarify that you are clarifying, not explaining, and your tone must be plain.

Back to the topic, what are the performance of those senior consultants today? Well, most of them put themselves in an authoritative role and cannot extricate themselves. They are arrogant and even sneer at some sincere novice consultants. Moreover, a considerable number of them are also poisoned by acceptance. But where are they lucky? Very few people kick the club. Because the latter are good at bullying the weak and afraid of the strong. In itself, they have not broken the framework of authority worship.

I have seen many terrible scenes where the consultant was attacked by everyone. It also called it a breakthrough in your growth. But get out of here! It can be too gentle, why do you have to use the model of creating psychological trauma? This is not called promoting growth. This is actually burying people.

I really cannot agree with the use of second-hand information to randomly project the client of the psychological counselor involved, and to attack the behavior of the psychological counselor involved.

This is why I don’t really want to go to the Supervisory Association. But if Mitsui speaks, there’s nothing I can do. To use Gongsun Wulong’s catchphrase, it’s so kind.

After accepting Mitsui, my heart felt like it melted. Because, I met a pair of eyes with prayer, eyes as clear as a deer. The owner even deliberately made his short ponytail shake for a few times.

OK, Weaver, you won.

At around 18:40 the next night, downstairs of a psychological counseling studio, I saw Mitsui who looked a little similar to a certain actress. Well, it was just to bury the tea artist and said how you can eat rabbits, the one who is so cute.

"Mitsui, long time no see, how are you doing recently?" I looked relaxed and greeted the other person. In my words, I clearly regarded the other person as a man, not a woman.

"It's not like I'm shrinking~" Mitsui deliberately greeted me in unstandard Mandarin as usual.

"Oh! What a cute little girl! Who are you? Didn't it?" Mitsui noticed the Weaver Girl beside me and her eyes lit up.

"My cousin, your imagination is still as big as ever." My expression was a little awkward because a loli was trying hard on my waist.

"Little sister, you are very cute. You like to play y so much? Well, it's really amazing!" Mitsui, who is nearly 168cm tall, leaned down, and his expression was still so jumpy and casual.

"Hmph!" Weaver Niang glanced at Mitsui arrogantly.

"Well, she doesn't like others calling her little sister." I said softly in Mitsui's ear.

"This is so? It's understandable~~ it is in line with the process of human psychological growth." Mitsui nodded to express understanding.

"You just understand, I can be your grandmother's grandmother if I'm not good at age." I complained in my heart.

"Human! Why are you so close to this woman?" Suddenly, a huge force came from behind me, and I was pulled and staggered. I knew that the weaver was jealous. However, this guy's strength was

"It's just a friend, a friend." I quickly beg for forgiveness.

"Ha? Ah Tu! What did she call you? People?" Mitsui looked a little surprised. By the way, because I dress very unfashionable, I was often criticized for being rustic by Mitsui. Even by the way, I gave me such a nickname.

"Well, lines! lines. Let's go up first. Otherwise, I won't be able to take the eyes of the melon-eating crowd." While I was perfunctory, I quickly changed the subject. Moreover, in order to prevent Morima Weather from continuing to make trouble, I grabbed her hand and gently snatched it. Without looking, I could understand that Morima Weather's face must be red.

I didn’t hold hands before, but in fact, I wouldn’t tell you that I was a little embarrassed. Moreover, I always feel that I don’t like the Weaver Girl in my appearance. Ah, this damn inferiority.

But it’s not nonsense to say that you can’t stand those excessive attention. Mitsui’s figure is middle-aged and upper-class. In addition, a girl with a white and jade-made Hanfu is impossible to attract attention.

So, I held Mori Niang and chatted with Mitsui. To my surprise, after I held Mori Niang's hand, the latter actually followed me so obediently. I'll leave! I had known this, so I would be embarrassed to be so embarrassed? However, I just thought so, and my face turned red. I felt like I was wrong.

"Woman, I tell you, this person is mine, my food!" The Weaver Girl's expression was full of coldness.

"Puff! OK! A Tu is yours! I have no interest in A Tu at all." Mitsui, who was talking to me, looked stunned and quickly raised his hand to surrender. Then, he raised his eyebrows at me. I suddenly felt sweaty all over. Auntie! It would be fine to say these words in front of others, but if you say such words in front of a psychological counselor, you will have an amazing result! At that time, if you are serious, go and call the police and sue you underage girl. That would be very happy.

Because in some cases, the minor who was violated would call the other party his own food in words. At this time, there were only three of us in the corridor, and no other consultant was present.
Chapter completed!