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Before getting angry, it is better to listen to the other person patiently. Because,…

However, Xiaoyu agrees with her mother from a psychological level.

In other words, she recognized and inherited her mother's desire for control, but she did not agree with her mother's control over herself.

Then, the conflict caused by resistance is manifested directly in the form of quarrel.

The relationship between husband and wife and parent-child relationship is just a mess.

Even Xiaoyu's first love ended in a uneven way in the conflict.

In Xiaoyu's words, the frustration in love was her only thorough experience of losing.

In this way, the context became clearer. In other words, Xiaoyu wore the mask of bitterness and the mask of the fighter.

"Your problem is that you are used to living environments filled with fierce conflicts. A plain and peaceful life without any waves will make you at a loss. It's like a wife who is used to husband snoring and suffers from insomnia due to husband's business trips." I pushed my glasses and made a small summary (I will wear glasses when consulting).

"So?" Xiaoyu's mouth opened slightly.

"So, the decision-making power lies with you in what kind of life you want to live. You are not passively taking it, you have the right to choose." I quickly took her words.

"So, what should I do?" Xiaoyu was a little confused.

"First of all, you have to learn to relax. When there is no trouble, if you feel uneasy, try to relax yourself." As I said this, I was going to use a systematic desensitization therapy program to deal with Xiaoyu's current local phase.

So, after telling Xiaoyu what systemic desensitization therapy is and getting her answer, I began to perform the first initial steps in systemic desensitization therapy, relaxation training.

Since relaxation training generally requires 6-10 exercises, each lasting half an hour, 1 to 2 times a day, repeated training until the client can use it freely and relax at will in real life.

In addition, time is limited. Therefore, after conducting preliminary training for Xiaoyu and summarizing it, the consultation is approaching the end.

"Thank you, teacher. After chatting with you, my mood seemed to be less depressed." Xiaoyu, who had left, smiled and stood up and nodded to me.

"Remember, you have to get used to a peaceful life, and you have to learn to talk to your inner self. In addition to the relaxation method I taught you, you also have to tell your heart from time to time that I, Xiaoyu, can of course live a peaceful and happy life." I looked at Xiaoyu's eyebrows and said seriously.

This way of placing your eyes on the other person’s eyebrows can make the other person feel the attention while not causing unnecessary anxiety or stress due to interlacing of eyes.

"Okay, I remember~ See you next week." Xiaoyu responded to my advice with a smile.

"Looking forward to our next meeting, see you again." I also responded to the other party with a smile.

Standing on the balcony and looking at the other person's back as he walked away, I frowned a little.

In fact, Xiaoyu’s problem is quite troublesome. I kept not mentioning the law of attraction because I didn’t want Xiaoyu’s attraction to be strengthened again.

To be honest, this really attractive law is working. That is, Xiaoyu is accustomed to conflict and has a demand for trouble. So her strong obsession begins to attract all kinds of troubles that can put herself in a state of fighting and conflict.

It seems a bit metaphysical and a bit off the track of the so-called science. Unfortunately, things and laws like this objectively exist in psychological phenomena.

You cannot slander superstition because of violating some current scientific norms. Little do you know that blindly denying and far-fetched explanations will also turn science into a superstition.

What is the trouble with Xiaoyu’s problem? Because of her psychological inertia. It’s like a person who is always right-handed. You make him become a left-handed in the short term. Is this possible?

I give this example, it is just behavioral. If you want to reverse the inertia of thought, you need greater mind and willpower.

Because it is difficult for a person with overly developed growth to get rid of it. It is equivalent to letting an unknown little civilian run for president.

Moreover, we must dig deep and heal and deal with some of the spiritual trauma caused by our original family in Xiaoyu's heart.

That's why I said Xiaoyu's problem is quite troublesome.

However, I have another way. That is, by entering a dream, I can enter Xiaoyu's inner world. I can directly find the root of the problem and solve it! By the way, I miss the woman with mature and charming spirit all over.

Ah, of course, there are also the red-haired girl who has just become a woman by me, and my concubines.

Well, I'm a little excited to think about it.

"People, what are you excited about?" The Weaver Girl, who appeared in front of me, looked at me in confusion.

"It's nothing, I'm thinking about dreaming. I don't know what kind of world I'm going to enter this time. So I'm a little excited. Hahahaha." I was a little ashamed. Because, why did I say something in my heart? Fortunately, what I said was just the last sentence.

"Hmph!" The Weaver Girl did not delve into it, but just glanced at me dissatisfiedly. It seemed that she felt like she was able to grasp the "dirty" thoughts in my heart. The woman's intuition was really terrible.

As night came, the mirror raised his jade hand and summoned the mirror with a dark blue luster. I leaned against the edge of the bed as always, looked at the dark blue luster in the mirror's hand, and closed my eyes. Then, as the familiar pulling feeling came, I began to fall into my dream.

After the strong light flashed, my vision gradually became clear.

Then, panic and helpless emotions began to attack me violently.

And I seemed to be holding something in my hand. There were even fine beads of sweat oozing out from my forehead.

Also, what does this atmosphere that is so quiet that you can only hear a slight rustling sound and your own heartbeat mean?

What is this kind of familiar and unpleasant feeling?

Because the senses of each dream are different. So after I fell asleep this time, I felt a confused feeling. But the most straightforward personal senses are not very good. But what is certain is that I am sitting.

So, I subconsciously looked around.

"Student, please don't look around during the exam! Otherwise, you will be treated as cheating." A majestic male voice rang out. A middle-aged male teacher stood not far away with a tiger face.

"!" My pupils shrank, and I quickly ended my behavior of looking around. Then, I looked at myself.

Oh, exam?

etc!

mlgb! It turns out that I'm taking the exam!
Chapter completed!
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