1313. mother and son affection
After Ye Ruo came back, he went to see the children first. Although Ye Ruo held this barbecue party today to make sure that the two children often disappeared from him, the morning passed this day, and Ye Ruo didn't have to go there to accompany the two little cuties. They had their friend Xiao Kui to take care of, so they had already put their respectable and adorable big brother aside.
There is nothing to do about this, and it is normal. No matter how good the big brother is, he is not more important than the playmate of his age. This is something that no protagonist's halo can be replaced.
However, Ye Ruo still needs to take the initiative to care about the two little cuties. At least Ye Ruo wants to see that little Kui, otherwise he will not feel at ease.
To take care of a child well, it is definitely not just about keeping her at home and providing her with delicious food and drink. Spiritual attention is equally important, or even more important.
Although the two little cuties have always been concerned about their friends, when they see Ye Ruo coming, they will know that they will focus on Ye Ruo first and pull Ye Ruo to sit among them.
Ye Ruo smiled and asked with concern whether they were full or satisfied.
Taotao and Keke both said they were full, and they also said that it would be best to ask Ye Ruo to have such a barbecue for them next weekend, and they hadn't eaten enough.
Ye Ruo couldn't help but smile. Children are children. It is very unrealistic to want them to feel tired of eating a barbecue.
Then, Taotao and Keke said to Ye Ruo again, Xiaokui was not full. Because Xiaokui, she definitely didn't eat much compared to them.
When the two little cuties talked about Xiao Kui, they heard that she didn't eat much, Ye Ruo immediately felt a dull pain in his heart. Ye Ruo understood why she didn't eat much, probably because she was afraid that she would eat too much, and that he would feel annoyed by others after eating too much. What a sensitive child! It makes people feel so distressed.
In fact, Ye Ruo had already put his eyes on Xiaokui. This child was also very delicate, and his clothes were not ragged. Instead, it still had a trendy taste and fit. However, these were the superficial skills her smart stepmother did to this child, and used them to deceive the villagers and neighbors in the same village. It made people think that she was a qualified stepmother, a virtuous and good woman. On the child's body, the parts covered by clothes, and the places where others could not see were covered with scars left by abuse. Both new and old were all new and old. Obviously, this means that even this morning, the child was beaten by the stepmother and maybe the father. Likewise, the beaten places where others could not see them.
Seeing Ye Ruo looking over, Xiaokui had already lowered her head.
This place is not her home after all.
She doesn't have any sense of belonging here.
Even though her home made her so frightened and did not dare to go home, she stood by her wall and did not escape. What does this mean?
This shows that no matter how dangerous that place is, it is home after all. It is still Ye Ruo’s place, such a good place, incomparable.
She was even more scared and uneasy when she was Ye Ruo. Although this big brother, according to Taotao and Keke, it was OK. Even if she believed that Taotao and Keke were children like her, she would not lie and deceive people. She didn't really believe this big brother.
If for a child, once her parents can't trust her, who else can she trust?
Then there are few people who can trust it.
For Ye Ruo, this little Kui seemed to be more embarrassed, unlike Taotao. When Taotao saw him for the first time, he dared to ask him to borrow a million. Of course, Ye Ruo knew that Taotao was also a child’s innocent nature, and being forced to only find logic to solve the problem from the intuition. Ye Ruo would not really think that Taotao was a bold child.
Ye Ruo could only see the subtle differences between these innocent children.
Ye Ruo always has strangely enough patience for children. He understands that if a child like Xiao Kui feels like her to make her feel belong here, she should not be impatient. Ye Ruo has even made preparations to take one to three years to make Xiao Kui truly integrate into the psychological preparation of this family.
Ye Ruo would not force the child to answer the question of whether she was full or not. It would be a big deal. Ye Ruo smiled and said, "It doesn't matter if you don't eat enough. Let Zhang Suqin and Coco's mother make more dishes you will like in the evening, and you can eat more. Now, let the elder brother take you to see Xiaokui's room."
"Come on, Xiao Kui."
Ye Ruo called Xiao Kui.
Xiaokui had no reaction, but was pulled by the enthusiastic Taotao and Keke to listen to Ye Ruo and go to see Xiaokui's room.
"Big brother, won't Xiaokui sleep with me and Sister Keke?" Taotao held Xiaokui with one hand and held her Taotao bear who would never leave her hands in the other hand, held her head high and asked Ye Ruo for Xiaokui.
Ye Ruo replied: "You guys, now Keke sleeps with her mother, which is very much. As for you, when I am not at home, you sleep with your sister Xueer. Only when I go home will you go back to Aunt Zhang to sleep. I usually don't stay at home, so you two sleep separately. Why do you ask me to put you together? There are rooms in our house, and there are no shortages of beds. I can get three beds into one room and let you sleep together, but, in that case, for Keke, it would be unfair that she can't sleep with her mother. In other words, it is difficult to have absolutely fair things in this world. The eldest brother asked Xiaokui to sleep in a room by himself, which is not to say that he did not pay attention to Xiaokui.
It is also very important for children to sleep in a room by themselves and have their own little world. This can cultivate the sex of a child and give you a more comfortable world. In this world, you can have any of your own. This right will not be trampled by your elder brother and your elder sister at will. Also, you two can't sleep with the adults all the time. At the latest, when you are in elementary school, everyone will have to exercise to sleep alone. No one can rely on your mother or elder sister to grow up. You can ask your elder sister when you have time, if she has been sleeping in the same room by herself since she was a child…”
Taotao immediately said: "Big brother, I asked my elder sister, so I know that my elder sister slept alone... But I still want to sleep with my elder sister or Aunt Zhang. I am alone, I am afraid of the darkness."
Ye Ruo immediately smiled and said, "It's okay to be afraid of darkness now. When you grow up, you will naturally not be afraid of darkness. Let's not be anxious, take your time. Okay, look at what I'm talking to you about so many principles that your children don't understand. It seems that I'm really becoming nagging now. Look, this room will be Xiao Kui's room in the future. In the future, whether it's me or your elder sister, if you want to enter Xiao Kui's room, you will knock on the door first. As for whether you need to knock on the door first, you have to ask Xiao Kui yourself. Discuss your children's matters by yourself."
There is a reason why Xiao Kui has no sense of belonging to this place. Without her own room and no place where she can make decisions, how can she have belonging here? No matter how well Ye Ruo protects her, she is not as good as she is now. Give her a room that can close the door and make her feel at ease inside, and it will be more direct and important.
Although Xiaokui still lowered her head and didn't say a word, Ye Ruo believed that the child might not believe much of his words now and think that this room belongs to her, but the child will slowly believe it in the future. As long as he can continue to patiently take care of the child's sensitive and fragile mentality, the child will not fall into a crisis of trust in others again.
Chapter completed!