Nowadays, there is a hostility on the Internet, and it is becoming more and more extreme. This extreme hostility is also becoming more and more intense in the Internet literary circle, so we can often see many online articles: Anyone who takes one look at my woman must die, and anyone who hurts me

The whole family must be killed, and the roots must be eradicated without leaving a single person alive, otherwise it will be the Holy Mother.

This kind of extreme, happy and grudge-like emotions caters to people's anxieties and fantasies in reality. It's really refreshing, but I don't think it's good.

In fact, Xiaosheng is a place to escape reality, just like the peasants who were oppressed by corrupt officials in ancient times imagined a utopia like Shuibo Liangshan. In a distant place, there is a group of men who, like the majority of ordinary people, come from the grassroots. Most of them were originally

They are all good people, but in the end they got angry and stood up against the shackles that those superior bastards put on them.

They love their brothers. They eat big chunks of meat and drink big gulps of wine. There is no famine due to food shortages, no court requisitioning food, and no government oppression. They live happily, punish evil and promote good, and treat the people, upright officials, and their responsibilities.

The businessman Qiu committed no crime, but when he saw corrupt officials and profiteers, he killed their entire family.

It was Canaan promised to the Jews by God in the Bible, and it was the paradise of freedom described by Tao Yuanming. People in ancient times either imagined that there were such a group of heroes near their hometown, or imagined that they were one of them.

Therefore, the heroes of Liangshan have been sung by the people for generations. Whenever they encounter injustice, they will think of them.

I know this very well, novels are meant to satisfy readers' fantasies.

After talking for a long time, the above seems to be off topic, so let’s get back to the main text. Please note that some readers may not be able to help but want to refute me after reading half of it, but I hope you can bear with it. After reading the full text below,

Comment again.

I know that novels are meant to satisfy readers' certain fantasies, but it cannot be said that they can indulge instinctive desires indefinitely.

Humans have selfish genes, and humans also have many cruel instincts of animals. However, humans can overcome these instincts and establish the rules of good and evil against the genetic instincts, and only then can humans establish today's society.

So, back to the real topic, is it really wrong for Xia Qingrou to go see Wu Wenyue, the mother of Shen Mochen?

The review is blaming her for being nosy, because whether it is based on our truest thoughts or Shuangwen's logic, Shen Mochen is being magnanimous by not retaliating against them, so why should he meet her? As a male blogger

The heroine in this movie, if you don't obediently obey all the wishes of the hero and do things that are contrary to his wishes, you are committing a heinous crime and making people disgusted.

But we have to talk about this matter separately.

First, for Shen Mochen, does he really not want to see Wu Wenyue?

The answer is no. Shen Mochen is not an absolutely rational AI. I hope he can think like a real person. Human feelings are complex. It does not mean that those who have hurt him must be full of hatred. For him

A good person must be all about love.

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Xia Qingrou wasn't good enough to him? But he dated Xia Qingrou when he had Yin Caiyu in his heart. Didn't he know that Xia Qingrou wanted to be together for the rest of his life? He didn't expect that when Yin Caiyu woke up, it would be him.

When he broke up with Xia Qingrou? But because of his inner loneliness, he still made such a choice that would ultimately hurt her.

Was Ekaterina not good to him? Shen Mochen was bullied at school, so she deliberately acted as his protective umbrella. Shen Mochen severely injured Gao Le, and Ekaterina was running around outside to save him.

Despite the prison sentence and the revenge of the Gao family, she also promised to help Shen Mochen find a person with supernatural powers who could save Yin Caiyu. So, has Shen Mochen evened out the above-mentioned kindness to Ekaterina?

Let's talk about Wu Wenyue, is Shen Mochen really unable to accept meeting her? You may have forgotten that Yin Caiyu also mentioned this matter, and Shen Mochen agreed at that time.

[Shen Mochen breathed out softly and finally gave in: "Let's talk about this kind of thing after you retire. If you go with me, I can also go see her."] (Chapter 20)

Of course, you can also say that this is because Shen Mochen loves Yin Caiyu too much. For her, he would rather go to see Wu Wenyue. And Xia Qingrou is nothing, she is just Shen Mochen's temporary bed partner, and she deserves to be compared with Yin Caiyu.

?

As long as Shen Mochen really doesn't want to go, what right do you have to meddle in others' affairs?

Then in Chapter 153 "Lonely Embrace", Shen Mochen said it himself: "I was thinking at the time that I should listen to Yin Caiyu and reconcile with my mother. I am rich now, not at the beginning.

That bastard, my life is better than hers, she has no reason to refuse. As long as I bow my head first and find a way out, I will reconcile with my mother, even if she doesn't love me like an ordinary mother loves her child, but

There will always be some sincerity.", "If I had a mother, if my mother was here, at least I would not be alone, at least I could cry in her arms."]

This part of the appeal is about the change in Shen Mochen's mood when Yin Caiyu just passed away. When he had nothing, he at least thought about reconciling with his mother.

Although with the passage of time and the warmth Cai Yunjian and Xia Qingrou gave him, he gave up this idea and regained his hatred for his mother. But this also showed that his feelings for Wu Wenyue were not

We absolutely cannot meet each other.

I have always felt that although the role of Shen Mochen's mother has not officially appeared, Shen Mochen's feelings for her are already very obvious. It is indeed disgusting, but it is also accompanied by a trace of fantasy when he is lonely.

In order not to be convincing enough, I also wrote about Shen Mochen's mood when Xia Qingrou proposed to Shen Mochen that she wanted to see Wu Wenyue.

[Unless that woman crawls around Qinglian Square three times and then confesses her mistakes in tears, Shen Mochen will not see her before that. 】

Of course, he didn't really want Wu Wenyue to crawl in public, it was just the resentment in his heart. Ignoring this resentment, what was his real thought in this sentence?

As long as the woman bows her head and apologizes, he can see her.

Of course, what I want to emphasize here is that meeting her does not mean that he will forgive her, nor does it mean that he will give her money. Please don’t overthink it. Saying a few sarcastic words condescendingly is also a meeting, and he also feels that in his heart

It will make you feel a lot more comfortable.

So is Shen Mochen really unwilling to meet Wu Wenyue? In fact, he is more like being angry. We also have such examples in our lives. Even if we don’t take our parents as an example, sometimes we will do the same with our friends. For example, I just talked to my friend

If you have a conflict and he says he wants to treat you to a meal or give you snacks, you will refuse, but this does not mean that you really don’t want it. After a while, your anger will subside, or you will find a way out, and you will naturally make peace with him.

good.

Small conflicts are like this, and big conflicts are like this. Shen Mochen is not indifferent to Wu Wenyue, but has feelings for Wu Wenyue (although they are basically negative feelings). But if Xia Qingrou worked hard that night, Shen Mochen

I will eventually agree.

But Xia Qingrou didn't do that. She let Shen Mochen change the subject without forcing him, because she understood Shen Mochen's pain.

Second, from Xia Qingrou's perspective, was it wrong for her to take it upon herself to meet Wu Wenyue?

Now regarding Xia Qingrou's criticism, I still feel that she is self-righteous and went to see Wu Wenyue despite Shen Mochen's refusal. So now we do not completely follow Shen Mochen's perspective, but simply discuss Xia Qingrou's behavior

, can she really be considered as making her own decisions?

First of all, we want to emphasize that from Xia Qingrou's perspective, Yin Caiyu has passed away, and she is the closest person to Shen Mochen in the world.

And this is what Shen Mochen acknowledges and acquiesces in various ways in his daily life. Under Shen Mochen's acquiescence, the love-minded Xia Qingrou will naturally feel that she and Shen Mochen have made a promise.

, is a couple without a marriage certificate. There is no doubt that the two will get married in the future, and there is almost no distinction between them.

From this perspective, is Xia Qingrou meddling? I don’t think so. How can we say that Xia Qingrou is meddling?

That can only be a double standard.

If Xia Qingrou cares about Shen Mochen's love and at the same time interferes in other people's private affairs as her future wife, that's called double standards and self-righteousness.

But Xia Qingrou loves Shen Mochen unreservedly, and her feelings for Shen Mochen will be the purest and simplest in 0819, without any utilitarian purpose. So she intervened in Shen Mochen's life.

Private matters are not considered double standards, there is no logical problem, and it is a matter of course.

Of course, just because Xia Qingrou can do this does not mean that Shen Mochen or the readers will accept it happily.

Then this leads to another question. Is Xia Qingrou doing this good for Shen Mochen?

There are different opinions on this kind of thing, but generally speaking, such a mother is not worthy of forgiveness. Yes, I agree with this, but don’t forget, the problem has never been that Shen Mochen didn’t forgive Wu Wenyue, but Xia Qingrou,

Is it possible or should I go to see Wu Wenyue behind Shen Mochen's back?

Can she, and does she have this power? We have already demonstrated that she does. So should she do this for the reason of "for Shen Mochen's own good"?

I would like to reiterate the author's point of view here, I think it is acceptable.

I have said before that Shen Mochen is not unwilling to meet his mother, but he is determined to lack a step, and Xia Qingrou is willing to serve as this step. Currently, only Xia Qingrou can serve as this step.

As for whether it is necessary to do this, I think it is necessary.

What Shen Mochen refused was just to see Wu Wenyue, and he did not say not to let Wu Wenyue come to see him. Moreover, the most important thing is that Shen Mochen has no relatives left.

I have mentioned several times in the previous article that Xia Qingrou could always see Shen Mochen looking lonely, and she felt sorry for him. This was also the direct reason why Xia Qingrou made up her mind to visit Wu Wenyue.

And I have said in the article more than once that Yin Caiyu, the person who understands Shen Mochen best in the world, also told Caiyun Jian before he died that he hoped Shen Mochen could go see his mother and let go

Things of the past.

Isn't this what Xia Qingrou is doing now?

I think true mutual support is not about blind submission to the other half.

Moreover, she could understand Shen Mochen's mood and did not want to cause any trouble to him, so she planned to meet Wu Wenyue alone first.

Her fundamental purpose has been stated from the beginning. She hopes that Shen Mochen can feel relieved and let go of the burden of the past. Xia Qingrou also understands that Shen Mochen is unwilling to see Wu Wenyue because he can't clean his face and is stubborn.

[But it’s okay for him to be stubborn like this. At this time, no one is more suitable to act as a mediator than her! 】

If you read the first two chapters carefully, you will know that Xia Qingrou never thought of morally kidnapping Shen Mochen to forgive his mother.

[As long as Wu Wenyue sincerely apologizes, even if he still doesn't forgive the other person, he will definitely feel a lot relieved.]

["I also hope that they can reconcile, but I don't think there is any need to force it... His mother left him alone, and if he has to ask him to forgive his mother, that would be too harsh on him!"]

[I just want his mother to apologize to him and admit his mistake... He actually really wants to see his mother apologize to him... I think it's his mother no matter what, no matter whether he forgives his mother or not in the end,

I support his decision to deny his mother.】

Xia Qingrou was very sober. She never felt that Shen Mochen wanted to forgive Wu Wenyue from the beginning. It would be great if Shen Mochen and Wu Wenyue reconciled, but even if they did not reconcile, it would be natural!

As for some people saying that she just hopes that mother and son will recognize each other, and that she wants Shen Mochen to give Wu Wenyue money and support Wu Wenyue in the future, it is simply nonsense, but she has not turned into Rufeng like that...

First of all, I am also very disgusted with moral kidnapping, the feudal drama that parents will forgive no matter what they do.

Secondly, Xia Qingrou didn't say that. On the contrary, what she said was that it didn't matter if Shen Mochen didn't recognize Wu Wenyue! Even if she didn't recognize Wu Wenyue, she could still expect Shen Mochen to support Wu Wenyue? They didn't let Shen Mochen go at all.

Accept the mother who abandoned him! She is not a holy mother bitch, even Cai Yunjian is not such a holy mother bitch!
To be continued...