Zhang Yan moved his lips. He wanted to say something, but before he could speak, his head hurts, and lines of words flashed quickly in his mind.

He had no time to see clearly.

"Darebird! A thief-sama!"

"You little bastard, you are a thief who rides thousands of people! Open a big account!"

Zhang Yan has Zhang's handsome skin, his eyes are like jade blades of autumn frost, and his skin is as bright and delicate as jade.

The corners of the cat's eyes were slightly raised, and a sharp curve was drawn.

When looking at people, it feels a little cold and quiet. Because of his young age, he is as pretty as a snow doll, and he can easily leave a disinteresting impression of being unspeakable.

...

Zhang Yan blinked his eyes, and a confused expression appeared as if he had woken up from a dream, and he was completely removed from his memory.

After listening to it, Zhang Youshuang's eyelashes drooped, and he kept silent, and air conditioning was whizzing all over his body.

She was actually bullied for a while when she was a child.

It can't be said that when I was a child, it was a junior high school to be precise.

She is a little clever and is a student committee member in the class. She can achieve good results with a little seriousness and effort.

The second-middle school kid in junior high school is no exception. Although he doesn't like talking, he wears a white cotton dress and long chestnut hair, he still feels a little stinky.

At that time, everyone loved to watch Korean dramas and chased all kinds of beautiful men. Zhang Youshuang felt a little disliked, but for the sake of politeness, he never said anything in person.

In fact, Zhang Youshuang feels that she is quiet and low-key enough!

As a result, one day everyone was gathering together and happily chatting about the Korean drama she had watched recently, and she also happily participated.

A girl in the class said on the spot: "Oh, Zhang Youshuang, are you still watching Korean dramas?

How tall and sophisticated are you?"

In an instant, Zhang Youshuang became stiff, his head was thunder rolling, and his young mind was hit hard.

Unexpectedly, the good friends she thought were actually sarcastic to her in private!

In fact, people are afraid of being famous and pigs are afraid of being strong. When she seriously wrote about the eight-legged essay, she had already caused criticism such as "pretending to behave".

Now that she is not like this, as she gets older, Zhang Youshuang understands in a daze that the most basic thing about being a human being is to respect other people's preferences.

This is also why she doesn't care much about these rumors outside now.

She doesn't care, but Zhang Yan cares.

How old is Zhang Yancai?

Zhang Youshuang was very regretful, and his intestines were so regretful that he was too incompetent and careless, so he should not leave a shadow on Zhang Yan's young heart.

The rice stopped cooking now, and held Zhang Yan's hand, picked up the fire stick beside the door, and then went out.

I've gone to find a place.

When she arrived, these naughty kids were still laughing, talking and laughing.

Zhang Yan's eyes widened slightly, and he looked at his irresponsible mother, picked up the fire stick and rushed up. His face did not blush and his heart was not beating. He did not feel that adults bully children at all.

Wherever you pass, birds and beasts scatter, and the mists are everywhere.

It is still impossible to underestimate the deterrence of adults against little kids. In fact, Zhang Youshuang didn't beat him much, and these naughty kids all cried and ran away.

Zhang Youshuang threw away the fire stick, gasped, blinked and smiled, walked up to take Zhang Yan's hand.

The mother and son returned victoriously and bought a candied haws on the way to celebrate.

Holding Zhang Maomao's soft little hand, Zhang Youshuang asked casually: "What do you do if someone bullies you?

Do you know?"

He was weak since he was a child, and his body was cold and cold. He held it in the palm of his hand as if he was holding a piece of cold jade.

Zhang Yan thought for a while: "Repay evil with kindness?"

"A big mistake!"

Zhang Youshuang stopped, swallowed a candied haw, and educated him seriously, "How to repay evil with kindness?

Repay grievances with righteousness and kindness with virtue."

"Is it the Analects of Confucius?"

"right."

"But I don't understand," Zhang Yan lowered his eyes and thought for a while, and asked decisively, "Isn't repaying grievances with kindness a state?"

Zhang Youshuang expressed his gratitude that the cheap boy could ask this question.

Turning his face and facing Zhang Yan's confused gaze, Zhang Youshuang was so cute that he trembled and decisively rubbed the cheap boy's hair.

"A good question, actually Kang Youwei has explained this question before."

"Kang Youwei?"

"A giant."

"Look, if someone bullies you, you still use kindness to repay your revenge. Do you think you can do this?"

“Can most people do this?”

"So Kang Youwei said that Confucius's way is not far away from people, because of the ultimate human feelings and the right way to follow the rules of others, which is feasible."

"Sage Confucius is very humane, considering the practical feasibility of "repaying grievances with kindness".

"Repaying grudges with kindness" sounds good, but it is actually impossible to implement it."

Zhang Yan paused and asked again: "This is what Zhu Wengong said, "The Tao is just a straightforward person. It is what everyone can know and practice, so it is often not far away from people."

If a person who is a Tao is disgusted with his low and close thoughts that it is not enough to do, but instead of doing things that are high and difficult to do, then it is not the reason for the Tao’?”

The meaning of this is actually that "Tao" is not a high-end thing at all, it is something that everyone can understand and do in life.

Pursuing the kind of high-end, high-end, elegant and high-end is not the Tao at all.

I dislike the "repaying grievances with straightforwardness" which is too low and not high-end, and instead pursues the noble "repaying grievances with kindness", which instead calls everyone to be hypocrites.

There are four words in "The Doctrine of the Mean": "The Tao is not far away from people."

It is worth mentioning that from ancient times to the present, Confucian scholars generally do not agree with the nonsense of "repaying grievances with virtue" ╮(╯╰)╭

Zhang Youshuang was stunned for a moment, a little unexpected.

Didn’t this teach me the day before yesterday? Is this going to memorize it?

Now I feel more relieved.

The chicken pecked at the rice nodded: "So, this is why I usually say that Confucianism actually emphasizes practicality."

Zhang You spread his hands: "It is completely feasible to repay grievances with kindness in real life. If someone can tolerate this, my mother is willing to call it the ninja turtle."

The doctrine like "After slapping your right face, sending your left face up to beat you" is simply too weird!

"And people are all this kind of virtue. If you take a step back, he will go further."

There is a saying that although it is old, it is right that your gentleness should be a little sharp.

I was a little tired while standing and squatting at the foot of the wall. Zhang Youshuang started today's teaching seriously.

"The grace of a drop of water should be repaid with a spring and to repay the grudge with a straightforward manner is not in conflict."

"Look, if someone bullies you and you forgive him, he will definitely think that it's no big deal to do this.

He dares to do it next time.”

"He might go bullying others next time. You are not doing good things, you are instigating evil."

Take Zhang Yan's empty candied haws tag,

Zhang You clapped his hands and stood up.

"Let's go home."

"Remember to throw the candied haws into the trash can when you go home, don't throw the garbage at will."

Raising children is actually a tiring and proud and satisfied thing.

Zhang Youshuang stubbornly believes that raising children does not mean embedding the children in a mold and ultimately creating what you want.

Children are more like unsorted jade or a stubborn stone.

If you are patient enough, it will polish it into your hands with a bright and beautiful luster bit by bit. This process is very tiring, but it will also make people feel extremely satisfied and proud.

That night, Zhang Yan recorded the contents of Zhang You's double education in his notebook tonight.

This is also from Zhang You’s double-teacher. He said that a good memory is not as good as a bad pen.

He can actually remember it, but he never violates what his mother said and did.

Closed the notebook and Zhang Yan climbed onto the bed.

Immediately, my eyelashes trembled and opened again.
To be continued...