When I was intoxicated in the bubble of idol dramas for the first time in my youth, I was very eager for the future to have a particularly natural and beautiful love. In other words, there can be a variety of common hobbies and ideas between the male and female protagonists.

It is a kind of joyful and progressive playmate love. You can play and communicate well like a friend, or you can be romantic as you want as your lover.

So, before I got married, the easiest thing to attract me was girls who share my hobbies and ideas.

Back then, I liked to write things. As soon as I saw a familiar girl with good writing style and the articles she wrote were uniquely charming, my heart would naturally be touched;

Back then, I liked painting. Whenever I saw the paintings drawn by girls on the Internet that were particularly vivid and beautiful, I was not only intoxicated, but also intoxicated;

Back then, I liked music, such as singing, writing songs, and learning to play the electronic piano by myself. As long as I heard some girls singing as good as stars on the singing software, and when I saw some girls playing the piano well, my heart would have the possibility of being voluntarily hooked away;

Back then, I liked dancing. Although I was learning to dance so hard, I just liked it. As soon as I saw some girls dancing with personality and charm, my heart would really want to chat with them. Of course, this was just a big wish and would not take action;

Back then, I liked reading books because reading can bring my heart back to a particularly peaceful state of mind. So girls who can read books quietly and seriously will have a particularly peaceful beauty in my heart. When I meet a girl who reads quietly on the bus, I can't help but look at her twice more;

Back then, I liked riding bikes and playing basketball, that is, sports. When I saw some girls who loved sports very much, I felt that they would exude a kind of athletic temperament, which was particularly charming;

Back then, I liked to take pictures. Although I had never really used a SLR camera, I also had a mobile phone. When I saw some girls who were good at taking pictures, I would really want to go over and say "Hi"! Well, I am very good at taking pictures, framing, dimming, and choosing angles, rather than those who casually put on selfies or beautiful pictures;

Back then, I liked small trips. When I saw those girls who were not afraid of sunshine, heat, and tired during the trip, I would be inexplicably moved;

I liked it back then...

It seems that the more I like, the more I miss these likes.

Because among Xiaoshi’s hobbies, there are few hobbies that I really like…

She doesn't like writing articles because she has poor Chinese grades, but what she likes is the math that I am the least capable and is as terrifying as a nightmare to me;

She doesn’t like painting because she doesn’t know how to draw. If she really likes to draw, she will draw even if she doesn’t know how to draw. However, she likes to see me draw, but I’m not used to being watched to draw because I’m distracted;

It’s not that she doesn’t like music, but she doesn’t dare to sing very much. Sometimes she’s happy that when the flowers are blooming, she will sing a few words openly. Although it’s not special, I like it. Because, for a girl who is willing to sing for me, no matter how ugly she sings, I can hear the cuteness and beauty that she says to me;

It’s not that she doesn’t like dancing because she hasn’t skipped, but in her heart, she has planned to practice dancing for the next generation in the future. As for the dance I dance, she may not agree with it because she is unprofessional and a bit too soft, and she is not as handsome and masculine as other boys dance;

She doesn't like reading books, and she feels sleepy when she sees the dense words. However, she likes to make TV series or movies. Although I also like to make TV series and movies, there are not many TV series and movies we like to do;

She should like sports, but not particularly because she cares too much about the influence of objective conditions. I really yearn for the experience of a couple riding a bicycle on a small trip together, but for me, this can only be a fantasy, after all, it is unrealistic;

She likes taking photos, but it is not the kind of photo shoot that is particularly good at taking photos. But at least, she likes taking photos, and we still have a bit of a common hobby;

She likes small trips, but it is a little different from my small trip style, but it can slowly blend;

She likes to play mobile games, such as the one that was very hot before, but I am not too fanatical about games. However, in order to make our common love more, I also played the one that was a while because of her;

She likes to eat snacks. When playing with mobile phones or playing TV shows, snacks are a good combination, but I don’t like snacks. However, for the sake of common hobbies, I also ate snacks with her, which became a habit;

She likes to eat fish, but I don’t like it. Many times I avoid eating fish. But sometimes, she thinks it’s boring for me not to eat fish, so I also start to slowly make myself eat fish, as long as there is no fishy smell;

She likes...

Slowly, in line with her likes, my likes gradually became sinking...

It seems that I am no longer the same as I was, but nothing is in vain. I will be, the new me.

Xiaoshi and I are indeed not a playmate love that is joyful and progressive. At the beginning of our marriage life, there are contradictions of disagreement from time to time. But time has moved us into us, allowing us to gradually become suitable for each other, and thus slowly merge together in a round and slowly.

Well, yes, Xiaoshi and I are complementary and growth-style companionship love.

My love does represent my joy, but they are all superficial levels and are not enough to resist the strong winds and waves in life.

Although my careful running-in sometimes brings some pain, it will become very sweet after the pain, and can improve the quality of the inner layer. In the face of the strong winds and waves in life, I can better cope with it and grow better.

It is precisely because I like so many things that Xiaoshi doesn't like; I like so many things that Xiaoshi doesn't like, so that we can better complement each other's essence that we don't like but are beneficial. If Xiaoshi doesn't like so that I just like so that I can let her understand the beautiful existence; similarly, I don't like so that Xiaoshi happens to like so that she can let me feel the benefits.

This is a win-win complementary growth, which is very good, but it only requires a lot of psychological torture. After all, it takes a period of time to accept the existence that you do not recognize in your heart, and during the collision of thoughts, the heart will be very tortured. However, once the thoughts collide with sparks and merge, it will be a particularly comfortable psychological state.

We slowly collided, worked together, and grew up...

It was the evening of May 25, 2017. Xiaoshi and I played chess for the first time, and there was only that one at the moment.

Xiaosi is a novice chess player. I have only learned it once before and am not very familiar with it. However, when I was in junior high school, my uncle taught me to play chess, and when I was in high school, I could almost beat my uncle. So, I am a chess player.

When Xiaoshi and I first started to play those games, I was very serious. Because I like to win, I easily won the first game.

As for Xiaoshi, in addition to recalling what he wanted, she also had to avoid my conspiracy, so she quickly lost to me five or six consecutive games.

OK, it seems too easy to win, and I don’t feel that I have to be so serious. After all, my dear is just a chess novice. Why should I be so serious and ruthless?

So, I didn't even use a car, just used horses and cannons, but I still simply won one or two games.

I thought I would keep winning...

Xiaoshi began to become more and more serious, and her desire for victory and defeat began to expand. At the beginning, there were fewer and fewer jokes. She was almost midnight and didn’t want to take a shower, just to win me!

Sure enough, as long as my dear is willing to be serious, he can really jump a few times in a row.

Finally, in the game where I was carelessly losing the two cars, she stepped into my city with her domineering two cars and one shot, and took my general!

For this, she was as happy as a child.

Hahaha! Not bad, keep working hard.

After winning one game of me, she felt that she could continue to win me, so she continued to play with me and had to play twenty games before she was willing to take a shower.

Unfortunately, I am too stupid. I don’t care about my goodness, I don’t show mercy, I don’t have high emotional intelligence...

I won every remaining game...

At that time, I wanted to take a photo and post a message to express my feelings of losing 1 in 20, but Xiao Shi glared at me very directly: "If you dare to post, I will ignore you in the future! I will do what I say!"

So, you said, do I dare to post it?

In fact, I wanted to post a message at that time not to say how powerful I am or how weak she is, but to express my happy mood at that time through a kind of humor...

My true happiness is not because I won the 19th game of chess in Xiaoshi, but because Xiaoshi rarely plays chess with me, and she plays so seriously and so devotedly. Chess is also my hobby, just falling asleep.

It has been a long time since no one has been with me for happiness in my hobby. I was so happy at that time! But, I can't share my happiness...

However, at the same time, I also understand that sometimes winning is not the real win, and it is also the loss. Occasionally, losing may be the real win, and it is a win-win situation.

If I had lost a few games to Xiao Shi without missing a trace at that time and would make her happier, wouldn’t that be better?

Therefore, people need to grow.

As stupid as me, I just need to practice more.

Now that I have written it, aren’t you afraid that Xiao Shi will ignore me?

Not afraid, because I believe that my wife is also working hard to grow...

This kind of complementary growth-style companionship is also good. After all, companionship is the longest confession.

I feel that every time I write something, I feel like I am confessing.

Is that true? Haha...(To be continued)
Chapter completed!