Chapter 6 Fever VI(2/2)
When I first went to Xichong to play, it was probably because the development was not long, there were not many people, and the weather was very good, so I left a very good impression on me.
Well, the sky is blue, the water is clear, the sand is thin and white, which is very beautiful! This kind of beauty is difficult to see in both the Big Meisha and the Little Meisha. After all, the Big Meisha is more people than the sea. Similarly, this kind of beauty cannot be surpassed even when I went to Cambodia to see the sea there, or even Bali to see the sea there.
Really, the beauty that penetrates the soul!
However, as time goes by and when there are more people, commercialization will be severely circulated, the beauty of nature will be covered.
After we took the bus to Xichong, the conflict began to arouse.
Perhaps the conflict was already aroused after climbing Qiniang Mountain because she was too tired... and I always urged her...
So, she felt a sense of dissatisfaction...
This cannot be said that we are right and wrong, it can only be said that we do not understand enough. Every conflict occurs, which means that we do not have enough ideas and lack of depth of mutual understanding.
I am so anxious that I just want to make her feel the beautiful things I think quickly, because it is so beautiful, I can't wait. However, Xiaoshi's mentality does not belong to me. She is tired and wants to rest, it's that simple. When she is tired, she still has to continue rushing, which makes her feel difficult to accept. Therefore, conflicts are inevitable.
If I couldn't wait to add some perspective to the point of view, maybe it would feel much better. But at that time, I was more lost...
Just like, you think you are giving, but it is a burden in the hearts of the people you give.
Before I dating, I fantasized countless times that I would take my partner to experience the beautiful things in the small trip I felt.
But when I really did this, I turned this into a burden, and suddenly, my original intention broke down instantly. The beauty I thought was beyond recognition in an instant.
Is it the one I was destined to disappear like this? I was silent...
I found a hotel in Xichong, but the price was extremely expensive and I could only check in.
Afterwards, Xiaoshi took a nap because she was too tired...
So, I learned my lesson and tried not to hurry up when I took Xiaoshi on a small trip in the future. If she wanted to rest, she would let her rest well. Although there were many beautiful things I thought were too late to see, I would no longer urge her. If I couldn't see this time, I would watch them again next time I had the chance...
After she woke up, I took her to buy a ticket to see the sea. She said she had never seen the sea. I thought she would be very happy when she came into contact with the sea so close for the first time, but, no.
Her calm face made me feel guilty...
I accompanied her for a while and took her to the Lover Island to play on a boat. But I felt that Lover Island was so ordinary and had no characteristics at all.
She and I walked around casually, seeing others touching crabs or something...
At that time, Xiao Shi saw a very special animal and pointed it out to me. I looked in the direction she pointed and saw an animal that looked like a sea snake but was not a sea snake.
It has a black snake-shaped body, the body diameter is the size of a thumb, and the length is about twenty centimeters. It seems to have no limbs. The point is its head. It looks a bit like a dragon's head, its eyes are grayish-white, with four pointed teeth, two on the upper and two on the lower.
When I stared at it, it looked up at me in the water, as if it was on guard, with its mouth half open, and its four sharp teeth were visible at a glance, in case I could counterattack when I attacked it.
Judging from it, it looks like a dragon, but I don’t know what kind of breed it is, and it’s toxic or non-toxic. In the end, I just ignored it and let it wander naturally.
A simple trip to Lover Island ended soon. I took a boat back to the shore and it was getting darker.
OK, go back to the hotel and take a rest, come back for a new day.
I had a simple dinner at the street stall. After returning to the hotel, I ate snacks, played with my cell phone, and went to bed when I was sleepy...
The third morning of the small trip was also the last day of the small trip.
The weather on this day was very good! There was a blue sky, but the sun was too bright and it was not obvious.
I took Xiaoshi with an umbrella and bought a ticket to see the sea again. This time, I thought I could see the beauty of Xichong I saw at the beginning, but it had changed. It seemed that there were too many people, and I felt that the beauty had deteriorated.
Xiao Shi still looked calm, and at most she took a photo of the sea.
I wanted to bring her happiness, but...
Just like that, we took a simple walk and checked out of the hotel, then took a bus back to end this three-day trip.
It seems that someone once told me that being loved is happy, and loving someone is very tiring.
Well, I think it is relative. If you are loved just like this, you are happy, and if you are loved too restricted, you are also very tired; similarly, if you love someone so much that you can't make him happy, you are very tired, and if you love someone so that you can make him happy, you are happy.
It is not scary to have conflicts, but what is scary is that there are conflicts and not to resolve them. Having conflicts means that the concepts of both sides need to be adjusted. If you let them go, small conflicts will become large conflicts, and the problem will be very serious.
To resolve conflicts, you need to change. Change is sometimes painful, but there is always something worthwhile.
Therefore, love is easy, marriage is not easy. After entering marriage, it is the real test of whether two people can be together well.
Chapter completed!