Chapter 40 Heart Anchor
Yuanjia lay on the bed and opened the system properties panel.
[Professional skills]: (20 for ordinary people)
Observations:56/100
Listen:55/100
Empathy:34/100
Worry-free:55/100
According to the ratings in the system, Yuan Jia is still an ordinary psychological counselor. When his ability to observe, listen and resolve worries reaches 60 points, and his ability to empathize reaches 50 points, and all four are met at the same time, he can be promoted to the senior level. Already.
The ability to observe, listen, and resolve worries has improved very quickly. Through previous courses, these three abilities have been significantly improved, and I have already touched the line of a senior psychological counselor.
However, the ability to empathize is still a bit stretched, and this can only be improved gradually through different psychological course experiences in the future.
During today's treatment with Chen Yuan, Yuan Jia used hypnosis. Hypnosis is a very effective method when dealing with many mental illnesses.
Yuan Jia has also learned hypnosis, but the results have been limited. He plans to focus on improving his abilities in this area tonight.
Hypnosis does not mean sleeping peacefully, but under the psychological suggestion of the hypnotist, some changes have occurred in the hypnotized person's perception, thinking, memory, and behavior.
Yuanjia treated Chen Yuan's exam syndrome by implanting the heart anchor "Even if he doesn't do well in the exam, your future will not be too bad." When a situation arises, his thinking will be different from before. He is not thinking, 'My future will be over if I fail the exam', but 'This exam is really not that important.'
There are prerequisites for the implantation of the heart anchor. The hypnotized person must be in a very special state, such as tension, anxiety, fear, excitement...
The hypnotized person's strong trust in the hypnotist stimulates his inner motivation for seeking help. At this time, the hypnotist will implant a heart anchor into the hypnotist's consciousness. The heart anchor will be combined with this state, just like conditioned reflex, and implant After the hypnosis is successful, whenever an inducement appears, the anchor will take effect, causing corresponding changes in the hypnotized person's thinking, perception, and behavior.
To put it simply, there are three necessary elements in order to successfully hypnotize a person.
The first is to inspire trust. If you can make the other party completely and absolutely believe in you, then hypnosis is half the battle.
This one is very difficult. The reason why Yuan Jia can easily give Chen Yuan hypnotherapy is because he has reached a state of empathy with Chen Yuan. Chen Yuan trusts him immensely, and his presence also gives Chen Yuan great confidence. .
The biggest function of the hypnotic pocket watches sold in the system mall is this. You only need to take out the pocket watch and wave it in front of others, then you can build a bridge of trust and start hypnosis.
The second one is loss of balance. It includes physiological balance and psychological balance, which can be understood as a special environment or a special emotional state.
Once the hypnotic subject loses his balance, he will instinctively grab everything around him like a person falling into the water. At this time, if you give his subconscious a hint, he will easily accept it.
Chen Yuan's exam syndrome is a symptom of imbalance, and Yuan Jia's words will be his life-saving straw.
The third one is a clear reshaping instruction, which is to implant a heart anchor.
The anchor is a form of conditioned reflex. It is often used to describe psychological reactions. It may be a sentence, a word, or something, but when you come into contact with it, it will change your inner feeling in an instant. This is a kind of psychological anchor. A permanent experience.
For example, when you were kissing your girlfriend, you had a lychee-flavored candy in your mouth. In the future, whenever you eat lychee-flavored candy, you will subconsciously think of that sweet love time. This is a kind of unconsciousness.
heart anchor.
Everyone has anchors, which are generated inadvertently in daily life. For example, if you once got a ticket for speeding on a certain road section, you will subconsciously slow down when you pass that section of the road next time, or if you were with a classmate when you were a student.
If you have had a conflict and found out at work that he is actually your boss, then as soon as you see his face, you will feel that work has lost its fun.
The heart anchor has two different powers, positive and negative. A general can arouse the enthusiasm of the soldiers when giving a speech, and then combine this enthusiasm with his face, military flags, or drums, command flags and other incentives.
Implanting an anchor in the hearts of soldiers is like an indestructible mental seal. In the future, as long as soldiers see his face, see the military flag, and hear the sound of the horn, they can awaken an unparalleled strong fighting spirit.
Heart anchors often appear in novels. For example, a disciple killed his master to seize the skill. When he was nervous and entangled in his heart, his master said something before he died, 'You will be condemned by your conscience and will never be able to break through in your life!'
, it’s okay if the practice goes smoothly on weekdays, but if once encountering a certain bottleneck, then this sentence will pop up in the mind, torturing the disciple’s body and mind, and even going crazy at the most critical moment of breakthrough, the heart anchor becomes
His 'demon seed'.
An excellent hypnotist can unknowingly implant a heart anchor in you, thereby changing your thinking and behavior, which means you are hypnotized.
Similarly, everyone has anchors. If you find these anchors and use them, you can control his behavior.
What Yuan Jia didn't know was that he had unknowingly planted an indelible anchor, or love seed, in a girl.
During their relationship in the first year of high school, when Xu Nanzhi was helpless and about to collapse emotionally when she was about to go on stage, he gently patted Xu Nanzhi on the shoulder and said to her, "It's okay, I'll go up for you."
A simple action, no gorgeous rhetoric, just seven words, "It's okay, I'll go up for you." However, it became Xu Nanzhi's greatest salvation at that time.
This became her anchor and her passion, so that whenever she encountered such helplessness and fear, she would always think of that young man, his face, his movements, and the man on his shoulder.
The warmth in the palm of my hand, and the words he said.
Every time she meets her, she will be reminded of him, and the mark will be deeper. Just like the grand fireworks blooming in the night sky on her birthday, it will accompany her throughout her life and will never be forgotten.
People's infatuation is always accompanied by such things that cannot be forgotten.
Maybe it was the song played on the school broadcast on the day she confessed her love, maybe it was the paper cranes she folded with her own hands, with words written all over them, or maybe it was the sunset or the blushing face that she couldn't tell...
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The hardest thing in the world is to put your own thoughts into someone else's head.
In Inception, there are many such magical operations, and you don't even realize that your subconscious has been quietly modified.
Yuanjia searched for courses on hypnosis in the system, and he planned to focus on studying them tonight.
If you are someone with whom you can empathize, then the first step of hypnosis can be easily accomplished. In the empathic state, the other person has almost blind trust in his words. After all, no one can reject someone who can truly understand them.
There are many ways to inspire the other party's trust. Yuanjia's own self-confidence, or fame, or special environment, it will be even easier if there is a prop like a hypnotic pocket watch.
This is not what Yuanjia wants to learn tonight. He plans to learn the implantation and utilization of heart anchors.
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